Monday, February 21, 2011
The Art of Silence (For Women)
Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. However, when arguing with your spouse and you feel offended/disrespected instead of yelling and getting nowhere; just be quiet. Silence is the best thing you can do to try to get your point across. Why? When you are quiet you don't start something extra into the argument, but you let it be known to your spouse that you are bothered. Be silent for a few days until you are ready to rationally discuss how you feel. Your spouse will not like the silent treatment at all, BUT it is necessary at times. They might say things to get you even more aggravated, however keep your cool and follow through. None of us like to argue with our spouse, so try to avoid the arguments as much as possible. Silence is not always a bad thing to practice.